When you disregard your positive qualities by telling yourself, "I'm too fat, I'm no good, I lousy in everything, I never do anything right, somebody are laughing at me now, somebody dont like me," you'll always find verification of what you're looking for.
"Putting yourself down reinforces rather than corrects your imperfections by placing unnecessary attention and energy on everything that's wrong, rather than what's right with you. Why would you do this knowing the only possible result is a negative outlook, more negative feelings and less appreciation for the gift of life? People who regularly put themselves down are often seen as complainers, not to mention the example they set.
Everyone has aspects of themselves they'd like to improve, but this doesn't mean you should beat yourself up. Here on earth none of us is ever going to be perfect, but putting yourself down isn't the answer."
It's okay to work on improving yourself, but go easy; stop often and remind yourself that you're "being made new"...
** We always there when you need our help, so just stop putting yourself down and think positively, we always willing to help you, so please help yourself too and face the problem bravely*
!! HapPy Go LuckY !!
Saturday, August 29, 2009
Thursday, August 27, 2009
Chance
Chance is like a meteor.
Once you miss a good chance you'll take a long time to have your 2nd chance.
How long could have a 2nd chance? a month, a year, a couple years.. or couple 10 yesrs? who knows.. :)))
Thus, whenever meet a good chance don't miss it. No worries and wonder much whenever meet the 1st chance. It's hard to be that lucky to have the 2nd chance as fast as you like or whenever you wish.
When you meet the chance, It's officially yours don't even hope you'll have 2nd chance. No consider, just accept. ;)
Anyone will easily miss their chance because of not dare to take risk to have a try, or they hard to let their preciouse things/people go. Then They choose to miss their chance. I felt it kinda waste.
I believe when chance is approach to us, we must try or accept it. I also believe chance will make something new. The ending will be different whenever we start to accept our chance.
Once you miss a good chance you'll take a long time to have your 2nd chance.
How long could have a 2nd chance? a month, a year, a couple years.. or couple 10 yesrs? who knows.. :)))
Thus, whenever meet a good chance don't miss it. No worries and wonder much whenever meet the 1st chance. It's hard to be that lucky to have the 2nd chance as fast as you like or whenever you wish.
When you meet the chance, It's officially yours don't even hope you'll have 2nd chance. No consider, just accept. ;)
Anyone will easily miss their chance because of not dare to take risk to have a try, or they hard to let their preciouse things/people go. Then They choose to miss their chance. I felt it kinda waste.
I believe when chance is approach to us, we must try or accept it. I also believe chance will make something new. The ending will be different whenever we start to accept our chance.
Sunday, August 23, 2009
Wondering~~~
hola all my frens! penny,jo, and claire how was ur holiday?!!!! having a great time? hahahaha.. well, i am having my confusing holiday which has joyful, sadness, blur... rili consufing me!! hahaha
but i am gonna join claire and james in KL :D
i may take my result together with Arizan, then maybe ask more about the degree thingy.. time passes really fast! next week, we have to be going back to the boring college, again! With friends, adding more interests and points why i would go to the boring college.. AHAHHAHA but of course, some friends will be leaving us.. =(
i can tell that my holiday is the weirdest i ever had b4! LOL
MISS YOU GALS! hope to see all of u soon!
MUAX MUAX :D:D
but i am gonna join claire and james in KL :D
i may take my result together with Arizan, then maybe ask more about the degree thingy.. time passes really fast! next week, we have to be going back to the boring college, again! With friends, adding more interests and points why i would go to the boring college.. AHAHHAHA but of course, some friends will be leaving us.. =(
i can tell that my holiday is the weirdest i ever had b4! LOL
MISS YOU GALS! hope to see all of u soon!
MUAX MUAX :D:D
Saturday, August 15, 2009
ThanksGivinG
Hey there....
Finally, we finish our foundation and waiting for the result..Now, everyone are having own semester break. Hmm~ what they are going to do during this semester break???? HAHAHA~ I will go to sarawak then KL and rafting ^^... Yeah~ My mama said that im so enjoy my life, then I told her that 'If one day the sky fall down,I will jz assume it as blanket only".. hahaha.. LOL..
Actually I miss my friends so much, especially jojo and sim... they are going to leave kk soon.. here to express thanks to them because always teach me and help me when i faced the schoolwork problems. Im really appreciated it.. Sim, thanks for the cookies..it really nice and I'm felt so touched that u keep your promise and made it for us! But...hmm~ izit next time u can make black&white dog cookies (DALMATION) hahahahaXD
Yeah~ tomorrow we will meet together and dinner at one borneo..STEAMBOAT.. yummy yummy... I love this GENG of friends... I wish we will have a great and wonderful night on tomorrow!!!! XP
Cheerssssssssssss..Muax muAx mUax XD
Finally, we finish our foundation and waiting for the result..Now, everyone are having own semester break. Hmm~ what they are going to do during this semester break???? HAHAHA~ I will go to sarawak then KL and rafting ^^... Yeah~ My mama said that im so enjoy my life, then I told her that 'If one day the sky fall down,I will jz assume it as blanket only".. hahaha.. LOL..
Actually I miss my friends so much, especially jojo and sim... they are going to leave kk soon.. here to express thanks to them because always teach me and help me when i faced the schoolwork problems. Im really appreciated it.. Sim, thanks for the cookies..it really nice and I'm felt so touched that u keep your promise and made it for us! But...hmm~ izit next time u can make black&white dog cookies (DALMATION) hahahahaXD
Yeah~ tomorrow we will meet together and dinner at one borneo..STEAMBOAT.. yummy yummy... I love this GENG of friends... I wish we will have a great and wonderful night on tomorrow!!!! XP
Cheerssssssssssss..Muax muAx mUax XD
Friday, August 14, 2009
New life is starting to begin
hey gals! i got my 1st post here.. hehehe paiseh bout it..
well, we finished our very last paper 2day!!! had movies.lunch together and SIM thanks for ur cute,creative and delicious cookies,appreciate it much! These indeed are really fun. BUT, this kind of moment we will not have frequently as always. Just like what James said, we left our memories there! hahaha
Since, Jo and sim are going to leave KK, Claire and I are going to enter degree, our life eventually is changing now again.. We will not have the chance to take lunch in Sempelang, Sinar Mustika, 38 and etc.. we may seldom meet Penny,James,Victor,Arizan and many of them!!!!
However, life is changing which is also a good thing! All of us pursue our dreams for a better life. We should not maintain the life,instead, upgrade it! live for life!! cheers for life! life is in our hand, we can mold it for our own good.So guys, dont easily give up! failure is a medium to let us know what is sucessful :D
My feeling is mixed up now.. hahaha excited, sad, happy, worry.. I love all of you guys!
CHEER FOR LIFE!
well, we finished our very last paper 2day!!! had movies.lunch together and SIM thanks for ur cute,creative and delicious cookies,appreciate it much! These indeed are really fun. BUT, this kind of moment we will not have frequently as always. Just like what James said, we left our memories there! hahaha
Since, Jo and sim are going to leave KK, Claire and I are going to enter degree, our life eventually is changing now again.. We will not have the chance to take lunch in Sempelang, Sinar Mustika, 38 and etc.. we may seldom meet Penny,James,Victor,Arizan and many of them!!!!
However, life is changing which is also a good thing! All of us pursue our dreams for a better life. We should not maintain the life,instead, upgrade it! live for life!! cheers for life! life is in our hand, we can mold it for our own good.So guys, dont easily give up! failure is a medium to let us know what is sucessful :D
My feeling is mixed up now.. hahaha excited, sad, happy, worry.. I love all of you guys!
CHEER FOR LIFE!
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Dreams and Lessons
Final will be ended by tomorow. So, excited.
Although I'm exited my coming life around KL, but I am so worry about my parents and my friend. My friend will be alone at KL. Besides, I wish my parent will not worry me much too.
However, life is to improve. This is my choice, I wish I could fulfill my dream for my coming life in KL. Hmmm... Before, my objective in KL only want to leave my parents because I dislike to be control. But time getting nearer. My mind already different. I go to KL not because of them anymore. First, KL have a lot of choice part time career for me and I can persue my dream which is photography. I love to take photos. It gonna be my hobbies seem THIS YEAR lolz.. surprice. I enjoy taking nice view, landscaping, any movement and (special moment). I wish my dream can come true. But, now it isn't time for me to do. My 1st mission is to complete my accounting course. I hope I wont waste my parents money anymore. Last time was my first failure, I don't wanna have 2nd time. Although I have been waste my times and parents money, but I have learn a lot of things. Make a choice I like always, not to find a choice which only will have income but have no interesting on it.
I was so regret the way of thinking my parents. I always think they like to control people. But I'm totally wrong. All they wanna do is help me. I never understand their feeling. However, My choice is leaving. I felt KL is the wide way for me to fulfill my dreams. That's why...
I believe any parents will care their own son and daughter. The way they care are different. Some like to say or scold, some love to help their children arrange anything. And yes, anyone will think I always listen to my parents. I think I do not have any fault, if I never listen their advice, I'll regret. I use to have a lesson whenever I ignore my parents' advice. I also believe whenever you down, the 1st person who can sense and also start to worry you is your parents. Although I do not have parents experience, but I always care and worry about my friends whenever they have big trouble or inccident. So, I can slightly know the parents feeling.
And of course I appreciate all my lovely friends much =) Without the encouragement from my true friends, I wont be tough like the first day you all get to know me until today. lolz
Although I'm exited my coming life around KL, but I am so worry about my parents and my friend. My friend will be alone at KL. Besides, I wish my parent will not worry me much too.
However, life is to improve. This is my choice, I wish I could fulfill my dream for my coming life in KL. Hmmm... Before, my objective in KL only want to leave my parents because I dislike to be control. But time getting nearer. My mind already different. I go to KL not because of them anymore. First, KL have a lot of choice part time career for me and I can persue my dream which is photography. I love to take photos. It gonna be my hobbies seem THIS YEAR lolz.. surprice. I enjoy taking nice view, landscaping, any movement and (special moment). I wish my dream can come true. But, now it isn't time for me to do. My 1st mission is to complete my accounting course. I hope I wont waste my parents money anymore. Last time was my first failure, I don't wanna have 2nd time. Although I have been waste my times and parents money, but I have learn a lot of things. Make a choice I like always, not to find a choice which only will have income but have no interesting on it.
I was so regret the way of thinking my parents. I always think they like to control people. But I'm totally wrong. All they wanna do is help me. I never understand their feeling. However, My choice is leaving. I felt KL is the wide way for me to fulfill my dreams. That's why...
I believe any parents will care their own son and daughter. The way they care are different. Some like to say or scold, some love to help their children arrange anything. And yes, anyone will think I always listen to my parents. I think I do not have any fault, if I never listen their advice, I'll regret. I use to have a lesson whenever I ignore my parents' advice. I also believe whenever you down, the 1st person who can sense and also start to worry you is your parents. Although I do not have parents experience, but I always care and worry about my friends whenever they have big trouble or inccident. So, I can slightly know the parents feeling.
And of course I appreciate all my lovely friends much =) Without the encouragement from my true friends, I wont be tough like the first day you all get to know me until today. lolz
Sunday, August 9, 2009
Precious for you
鸿歌...那是我的心意...这一次不要再delete 哦...好心痛...:PPP
我们大家也认识了一段时间.感觉大家好象昨天认识.觉得好惊喜你说要做一个blog让我们大家一起分享彼此的故事,经历,感想.今天我的灵感有限.也许没那么多话说.
我很明白你的好意.我会好好珍惜你们.当我过去那儿时,一定会带许多精彩`以及有趣的事与大家分享.
那我很希望大家回分享更多的快乐事物在这里...:)
既然大家那么有心,那我最想看到的就是大家的笑容.你们必须保持那些精神.无论遇到生气`伤心`气馁的事...我好希望你们也会写在这儿.虽然我不会很厉害安慰你们,可是可以当你们的读众.哈哈...
我知道你会想念我的,我相信大家一定有机会在见面的...不要忘记现在刚刚还在大考哦.还有蛮多时间. :P
我相信朋友会增加,好的朋友就要保留...
希望去到西马也会遇到一班象你们那么活泼可爱的朋友.哈哈...
人最重要的就是找到快乐.没什么比快乐重要了.我觉得快乐才能把事情做的有意思.所以我没什么要求.就是一直不停的快乐...哈哈.所以很多人都说我很喜欢笑...因为我觉得笑真的是最好的良药...:PPPP
看,我的毛病有发作了...又来废话一大堆了...先说到这里...
有一句话我蛮喜欢的:
"排除万难,才会有奇迹"
a.k.a
"Out of difficulties,makes miracle"
小姐们,祝我们考试成功~!大家努力~!加油!! :)
我们大家也认识了一段时间.感觉大家好象昨天认识.觉得好惊喜你说要做一个blog让我们大家一起分享彼此的故事,经历,感想.今天我的灵感有限.也许没那么多话说.
我很明白你的好意.我会好好珍惜你们.当我过去那儿时,一定会带许多精彩`以及有趣的事与大家分享.
那我很希望大家回分享更多的快乐事物在这里...:)
既然大家那么有心,那我最想看到的就是大家的笑容.你们必须保持那些精神.无论遇到生气`伤心`气馁的事...我好希望你们也会写在这儿.虽然我不会很厉害安慰你们,可是可以当你们的读众.哈哈...
我知道你会想念我的,我相信大家一定有机会在见面的...不要忘记现在刚刚还在大考哦.还有蛮多时间. :P
我相信朋友会增加,好的朋友就要保留...
希望去到西马也会遇到一班象你们那么活泼可爱的朋友.哈哈...
人最重要的就是找到快乐.没什么比快乐重要了.我觉得快乐才能把事情做的有意思.所以我没什么要求.就是一直不停的快乐...哈哈.所以很多人都说我很喜欢笑...因为我觉得笑真的是最好的良药...:PPPP
看,我的毛病有发作了...又来废话一大堆了...先说到这里...
有一句话我蛮喜欢的:
"排除万难,才会有奇迹"
a.k.a
"Out of difficulties,makes miracle"
小姐们,祝我们考试成功~!大家努力~!加油!! :)
The Beginning
Hi everyone, Jojo, im sorry to use the title of "the beginning", coz u had used for it just now... lol.. I accidently delete the blogspot jz now, then I have to make it again.. haha
Well, this blogspot are own by Me, Jojo, Bong n Penny, the reason that I make this account because of my "sopo" frenZzz... especially JOJO.. she will further study at subang..Hmm..I'll miss her very much.. I want her write down all the feelings / comment or anything that can be express in this blog! HAhahA.. Sure for others too.. ^^
Hmm~ Here got smthing that I want to share with everyone...^^ '
We can't go back or turn back to our past life and make things different. We need to keep move forward in our life. There maybe have something that we unable to get rid of, but there are three Scriptural steps we can take to get up, get over it and move on: (1) Forgive what others have done to you(2) Forgive yourself for what you've done (3) Believe that God has truly forgiven you and act on it.
Sometimes we hold onto the past because we believe there's something there we think we still need. We cling to certain things because we fear we'll never be able to replace them. No, God has more in store for you. If you've entrusted your future to Him you haven't seen your best days yet. There's more ahead of you than behind you. God promises: "Beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness" (Isaiah 61:3 NKJV). So in God's strength get up, get over it and move on!
But sure that our Family & True Friends will be our best partner and help us to pass through all the difficulties. ^^
Well, this blogspot are own by Me, Jojo, Bong n Penny, the reason that I make this account because of my "sopo" frenZzz... especially JOJO.. she will further study at subang..Hmm..I'll miss her very much.. I want her write down all the feelings / comment or anything that can be express in this blog! HAhahA.. Sure for others too.. ^^
Hmm~ Here got smthing that I want to share with everyone...^^ '
We can't go back or turn back to our past life and make things different. We need to keep move forward in our life. There maybe have something that we unable to get rid of, but there are three Scriptural steps we can take to get up, get over it and move on: (1) Forgive what others have done to you(2) Forgive yourself for what you've done (3) Believe that God has truly forgiven you and act on it.
Sometimes we hold onto the past because we believe there's something there we think we still need. We cling to certain things because we fear we'll never be able to replace them. No, God has more in store for you. If you've entrusted your future to Him you haven't seen your best days yet. There's more ahead of you than behind you. God promises: "Beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness" (Isaiah 61:3 NKJV). So in God's strength get up, get over it and move on!
But sure that our Family & True Friends will be our best partner and help us to pass through all the difficulties. ^^
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